I am a woman who has recently entered motherhood and am struggling with the initial phase. I miss the wife I once was to my husband and it often scares me that I would lose him to a woman who is sexier and available at times when I am not. But then I see him loving me for giving him his children and I realise maybe at times we women just suspect our husbands for no reason whatsoever. It is not just us but they also struggle in their own ways. If we respect each other for the contributions and appreciate the inputs, marriage might not be as scary as it seems right now.